COUPLES THERAPY IN LOS ANGELES
Helping you find clarity, rebuild trust, and deepen connection

You built this house — why does it feel so empty? 

You have both worked hard to get here - you chose each other, put in the work to build a life together, and thought you did everything right…so why does it feel so tense, so hollow, so disconnected? 

A lot of well meaning folks end up in situations like yours. It doesn’t have to look, feel, or work like this. You can find a better, clearer way of seeing yourself and your partner and using that insight to build the kind of deep sustainable connection you both crave. 

A couple holding hands but with lots of space between them - relationship therapy

Start building the relationship you both want 

By working together to find tools that make sense to both of you, I work to support you hearing and connecting with the parts of you that are trying to speak but can’t find the right words. I create a warm, secure, and structured space to unpack what’s really going on and help you work together to get to the heart of the issue, no matter how deep. I am direct, playful, and action oriented in my approach to help you build a better connection with more security,  more intimacy, and more tools to understand and resolve tension. 

My approach emphasizes a strengths based approach grounded in psychodynamic and family systems theory; although we start with the present we have to reckon with how we became who we are today. There is a reason you chose each other and why you are each acting this way.  By unpacking all of this we can unlock the vast potential for deep connection and lasting healing in your relationship. 

Two men with arms around each other -- for relationship therapy

I am right for you if:

  • You prefer a direct, candid approach that values accountability

  • You are looking a for a male therapist that works hard to support men, women, and all genders 

  • You want more from your relationship and are willing to put in the deep hard work to get it.

  • You value a therapist who is feminist, LGBTQ+ affirming, kink-supporting, and offers competence around consensual non-monogamy and polyamory

I am wrong for you if:

  • You want a passive therapist who won’t challenge you & your partner

  • You believe that therapy is always a slog and can never involve levity or fun 

  • You aren’t willing to open up and consider your role in your current dynamic

  • You believe couples therapists are only women or that a male therapist can’t be a hard-core feminist and still stand up for the feelings and experiences of men

Start the healing journey with your partner today